A family reunion in the Himalayas. An emotional return to Moldova. A big birthday. I wrote about these things and more this year. As we now turn the page, here are excerpts from some of my favorite 2023 posts:
Our family reunion in Nepal: “We heard the drums as our car pulled up to Champa’s family house in eastern Nepal. Then we saw the dancers. Champa’s brother appeared with an armful of flower garlands. His wife held colorful scarves. We’d arrived in Ilam, where Champa grew up and the two of us met when I was a Peace Corps Volunteer. Now it was 45 years later.”
Vietnam: “People seemed genuinely happy we were there and not only because we were bringing them business after the pandemic. They were proud of their history, their culture and their progress. They wanted us to know they are more than the place where America fought a misguided war.”
Discovering craft beer in Phnom Penh: “As an American who came of age in the 1960s and 1970s, I’d associated Vietnam and Cambodia with war and genocide, not with IPAs. I was glad to update my perspective. If I go back, though, I’m still not asking for the fried insects.”
Returning to Moldova: “We returned to our Peace Corps workplaces and learned, after more than five years, that our impact has endured more than we’d realized.”
Visiting Ukraine’s neighbors: “My friends in Moldova, and those on the front lines in Ukraine, don’t know anything about the dysfunction in our Congress. They just need help, and fast.”
Oregon: “At first glance, Oregon matched its stereotype when we visited last week: a coffee-sipping, beer-brewing, wine-tasting paradise filled with hikers and bicyclists wearing Patagonia jackets and REI backpacks. But then we discovered an Oregon far more diverse.”
Hip replacement surgery: “The experience has reminded me of something I haven’t wanted to think about, which is the inevitability of physical decline. No matter how active, engaged and ‘not exactly retired’ we aspire to be in this stage of life, we cannot avoid life’s frailties forever. We’re all in the lobby for the organ recital.”
My 70th Birthday: “I hadn’t been looking forward to this birthday. A decade ago, when I turned 60, I was still working. Five years ago, I was wrapping up my service as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Moldova. But now, I was entering a decade that used to be synonymous with old age.”
Giving Away My Grandfather Clock: “It’s a reality many older Americans eventually confront: Our adult children don’t want our stuff. … We all fill our lives and hearts in different ways. As I’ve been reminded this week, it’s all stuff, and it doesn’t last forever. Time passes even if the clock breaks. Tick tock.”
Keeping Active: “I wonder sometimes whether I’m trying to prove something, to myself above all. Maybe I’m compensating for the fact that I no longer have the title and recognition of a formal job. Indeed, when I return these days to the campus where I used to work, few people recognize me. They just see a random retired guy. So maybe I’ve been filling up my schedule as a way to say: ‘Hey, I’m still here.’”
Favorite Books: “Bless your heart, Demon Copperhead. You’ve beaten my annual Top Ten book list like a borrowed mule and now I’m madder than a rattlesnake in a forest fire.”
Readers, I want to thank you so much for following along with Champa and me, regardless of how recently you discovered “Not Exactly Retired” or how regularly you’ve tuned in. 
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Before Champa and I began our journey 18 months ago, I spent a career doing communications for nonprofit organizations, much of it ghost-writing articles and speeches for others. For four decades, I largely put my own writing aside.
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